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Montessori modified for home education.

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Well, while we do not have a multi aged classroom of 30-60 children with 4-8 trained Montessori teachers, we can modify Maria Montessori’s method of education for our home.

What we’re doing together is NOT “The Montessori Method”. Maria made it clear that each Children’s House was to have a complete set of equipment and set up in such a way that, if you moved about from school to school, you couldn’t find any substantial difference, with either the physical room or the teaching staff. If her Method was to be held up as a ‘scientifically provable’ method of education, then each room needed to be almost like a ‘science experiment’, repeatable and identical in every detail possible.

 

We are not able to replicate her model here. We can modify the main principles to suit our continuing journey with learning though. We do this because we LOVE Montessori… it just ‘fits’ well with how we behave and how we relate to each other, our family and friends, and to the learning process. So we have some guiding principles from the Maria’s writings to draw upon, which are:

  • Follow the child.
  • If a child demonstrates observable concentration when learning a new skill or mastering a skill, do not interrupt.
  • Do not help the child with something they feel they can succeed in.
  • Ignite interest but let that interest be free to develop.
  • Freedom is the matching of Liberty to work, and the Will to work. Liberty comes from having a prepared environment where choices are available, Will comes from within the child’s desire to learn. The prepared environment includes a ’3 hour work cycle’, usually in the morning, where the children know they won’t be interrupted. Where learning is progressively introduced and also where they experience the highest amount of Will, or desire, to learn.multiplication board

Every change we have made has been based on our discussions, where both M and D have had the Freedom to choose, always.

Although I’ve ‘ticked off outcomes’ in both the Board of Studies NSW curriculum and the Montessori curriculum, we haven’t always followed a routine or used the materials during a work cycle. During our meetings and discussions both M and D wanted very much for us to have routines, to use the Montessori materials more and to have definite ‘computer use time’, as all three of us have spent far too much time on computers over the past couple of years. Do you have that problem in your home?

Here are some  more samples of the work we are currently doing.

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So far we’ve enjoyed one whole month of gently, at first, moving back into a regular daily routine. Last week went exceptionally well. After they follow a morning ritual of getting their bodies ready (bathroom, breakfast… you know lol), they then start a three hour work cycle. Food is eaten when required, but we stop for lunch after those three hours. Two more hours is then devoted to projects and what Montessori called the ‘Great Work’, which basically means ‘learning something they’re obsessed about’. After 2pm it’s free time, and computers can go on (if they weren’t already used for research etc). At 5pm we stop for a 30 min cleaning roster where everyone chooses what room they start in and we all have jobs that we can do independently. Night time brings dinner, bath/book/bed and then I have time to write, and prepare for the next day, before retiring myself.

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It’s still a work in progress, however, we’re definitely on a good path. No one is resisting the change, in fact they hold me to task and remind me to NOT be on Facebook before 2pm!

All the best!

 

 

First day of School?

first day of school 1980As THOUSANDS of children head off to school today, it’s a great time to remember what that institution is… it’s ONE of the venues your child attends where they learn. Your home, the world, their friend’s house, the shops… the park, the beach, the *insert here* is another. LEARNING happens regardless, no matter where they are.

However, schools deliberately try to make children learn, and this doesn’t always work… which would be fine except schools ALSO test your child’s learning. That brings stress into learning. Tutoring YOUR own child can help to reduce that stress. It can improve test results, make learning easier and school more enjoyable. Tutoring is ‘assisting a student to understand what HAS been taught’, not teaching from scratch.

As you kiss them goodbye and then wait until you see them again, see if you can remember what it’s like to be excited to go school…. remember that first flush of new pencils and new school bag…. those new books!!!! The anticipation was INTENSE, hey!!!!

Then came the stress and then the boredom…. between the stress and boredom IS WHERE YOU FIT IN!!!! Catch them at the first sign of stress and help them to cope… that’s what tutoring REALLY does.

Happy to answer any questions you have, your questions may help others. Hope today is AWESOME for everyone!

End of 2009

Seasoned and lightly marinated greetings to you!

What a year it has been! Looking back it’s now easy to see all the mistakes/learning opportunities and all the victories. Hindsight is 20/20!
Pausing to reflect before moving on a valuable source of fertilizer for the new year: 2009 is compost for 2010.
So from 2009 I have found that building my schedule around my children and following them, just as Madame Montessori suggested works the best for productivity and happiness. For 2010 I have already printed out a new custom made planner and diary to record our scholastic achievements as well as my to do’s etc. Also my home is going through some necessary changes as we move/swap the children’s bedroom and home ed room, giving more room for play in a play friendly area and less room for concentrated reading and writing activities (as less room is needed). This also means we have an opportunity to declutter and use my favourite method of organising, GTD.
David Allen’s Getting Things Done book is my favourite read atm and has been for about a year now. The five distinct stages are;
  1. Collect everything (including all the physical ‘stuff’ and also a complete brain dump onto paper of EVERYTHING on your mind – do washing, back up computer, mmm would love some bacon and eggs for brunch, call friend who’s up from Canberra visiting are all on my current collect brain-sweep list)
  2. Process and decide ‘what does THIS mean’ for each and everything thing (I don’t want my friend to go back home and I miss out on seeing him so I really must call him but he posted something on facebook at 6am so he’s either up early – 40% likely, or he was up late – 60% likely)
  3. Organise each ACTIONABLE item (only the actual projects get this far as anything that is rubbish is in the bin, stuff I want to keep for later like reference is put in it’s folder/shelf etc. My project called ‘see G before he leaves town’ which makes it clear what that means to me in it’s title with the NEXT ACTION ‘ text G at 10am’ is now OFF MY MIND and on my list)
  4. Reviewing is something that is best done every week on the same day at roughly the same time, just to keep everything ‘clear and current’. That’s when you can collect/process/organise anything new and also read through the lists/titles of projects/scan ahead on a calander/diary etc so that you have an overview of what’s going on and feel on top of everything.
  5. Doing is the final stage and every week it becomes more and more of what takes up my time. To begin with the first 3 steps really do eat up a couple of days but it’s so worth it! Now I have a doing list of JUST the next actions on the projects I’m currently working on and everything else is OFF MY MIND!!! It’s a brilliant feeling of freedom. I really trust my system because all through 2009 I was working steadily on this, chipping away at procrastination, depression caused by … so many things but dealt with during the year.

Doing all of my ‘to do’s’ now feels like I’m working on my agreements and moving towards finishing them – not in theory, but actuality. What I have definitely gained from 2009 is a strong feeling in self-responsibility and confidence. As new projects emerge I’m far more capable of saying no to things that drain my energy and yes to LIFE! I have finished many projects through the year, but especially the last 3 months. I’ve gotten more done in these last few months than the 6 months before them! I put that down to having more time to do stuff, being more organised with my ‘stuff’ through getting better at GTD and also feeling happier with myself for being strong and not taking any more excuses, from myself or others. You might even say I’ve finished growing up – but I’m more childlike and carefree then ever! YIPPEE!!!! I love body boarding and have my eye on surfing in 2010. Also I’d like to do more camping and gardening (I have just finished landscaping my garden so now I have no more room for new plants! I’ll have to get some big pots instead!) I finished some preliminary writing of my book but will devote nights to writing consistently.
In 2009 I learnt that when it comes to writing it’s best to write consistently and produce evidence of writing for myself regularly, otherwise things Don’t Get Done! After attending an Editing course, making many drafts and writing down ideas for the last 4-5 years my next action for my book is to make a schedule for each stage needed to finish it – surprisingly the actually writing out the book only takes up a third of that time! There is so much involved in writing a book and it isn’t something I want to become obsessed about during daylight hours! Those hours are for my children! I’ll leave writing for a couple of hours a night, a few nights a week. I’m so grateful to have watched a few people write a thesis and after seeing 300+ pages blue tacked to walls (engineering student), delays become blockages to being able to do other things, draft after draft being edited/returned/edited/returned over and over, not to mention the stress it induces on others I’m content to take my time. I don’t have a due date for my book though, so it’s a different deal for me. If I did have a short time I know from experience my wheels would surely fall off and my children would suffer needlessly. It’s a nice feeling to be mature enough to say ‘mweh, just plod along with writing and in the mean time, enjoy your life! The Children will be grown and you’ll have missed it ALL if you become egotistically obsessed with your own self importance with a BOOK!’ lol. Ahhhhh….. life is so so good!
So for 2010 I’ll take the being more organised, being happier, forgive and forget mine and other’s mistakes and learn from those opportunities to avoid having to go through stuff again.
M and D are very happy and relaxed with themselves. We’ve had no problems adjusting to any of the events of 2009. They are amazing people who look forward – and why shouldn’t they! They are the new models, I’m the superseded one! At the same time I’m also fine with 2009 and very happy to move forward into an very good looking 2010!

Can a year be ‘good looking’? I see so many good things that have come out of the last few months of 2009 so it’s looking like a very good 2010! More of the same.
Next blog I plan to post some photos of our new home ed layout to inspire others, as I love looking into other people’s rooms to see what other parents are doing for their children.
HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!
ps Texted G and he’s already in Goulburn…but now I have more time today for finishing other projects. This GTD system is GREAT for moving forward! It’s a martial art to take life as it comes and not get hung up when things don’t work out… love it!